Like many other people, my favorite tennis player ever is Roger Federer. Since his 2022 retirement, I have read a couple of interviews with him.
As each interview made clear, he is spending a lot of time with his kids. I am glad I prioritized spending time with my kids. The child-rearing years are a phase to be enjoyed. No one will ever have as a regret, “I spent too much time with my kids.”
Federer said his kids play tennis, but he does not push any of four his children to play. Similarly, my philosophy for my kids was to expose them to sports and other hobbies, and then to leave it up to them to decide what they enjoyed and wanted to stick with.
I enjoyed reading about Federer’s charitable work. I was not surprised to read about that because it fits with other things I’ve read over the years about Federer. His foundation “has helped more than 2.5 million children in Southern Africa and Switzerland by providing the tools for education.”
From the Wall Street Journal, a couple of things he said that I loved…
What’s something you spend money on to improve your life?
I love to plan vacations. Having something to look forward to is important…I know some people don’t take vacation, or even if they’re on vacation they are super wired. But I am able to switch off, and then I come back feeling really energized. Quality time with friends and family is a privilege.
Do you ever give your kids professional advice?
My motto is it’s nice to be important, but it’s important to be nice. It’s about manners, being polite and speaking to people in a way where you are grateful and thankful.
Great advice for kids and grown-ups alike!
All my best,
David